HELP!! I am soooo scared about hospitals!?

It is normal to be nervous and scared for medical procedures. You have to talk with the doctors and have confidence in them. Many many good things happen at hospitals. You usually hear about the bad stuff only. You get can some medicine to relax you for your surgery. As for your dad, stay home and do something else and your mom can call you when he is out of surgery and feeling better. Good luck.